Kentucky woman shares experience with food insecurity, now fights to end hunger
LEXINGTON, Ky. (ABC 36) Growing up, Alisha Mays family relied on food stamps and food banks to survive.
“You feel absolutely hopeless you know you don’t know how to get out of it and in a lot of ways you can’t” said Mays.
Though, a happy family, she watched as her parents struggled to get food on the table.
Her parents were working multiple jobs, to only try and decide which bill was the most important to pay that month.
As the oldest child, she tried to hide what was happening from her younger siblings, but she was just a kid herself.
“I felt like it was definitely my responsibility to make sure that they ate before me, it was like a hierarchy, and essentially you have to make sure the kids eat. That’s like a core thing in my family, you know, is just make sure the kids eat which meant I sacrificed myself sometimes as well” added Mays.
The food insecurity led to her developing depression and an eating disorder, anorexia. A battle she fought for years. She says she just chose not to eat, because food was so scarce to begin with. She says her relationship with food was one where she felt she didn’t deserve to have food.
She says it was hard to understand why this was happening to them, but after enrolling herself in college and learning that so many others were struggling in just the same way had made it clear to her.
“When you’re a kid, you don’t see the bigger structure, you don’t see the failings of our food system that keep poor people poor, and that keep hungry people hungry. You only see the trauma you’re facing in that moment” she added.
Her experiences have made her who she is today…now an advocate for hunger and food insecurity in Kentucky.
“This is not a pull yourself up from your boots story. This is a story of a lot of people that are way more intelligent than me, taking a chance on me and investing in me, and telling me that even though I was poor and even though I was hungry…I deserved a spot at the table.”
That spot is exactly what she is fighting for now for others who share the same experiences.
“Where there are decisions about hunger being made, hungry people deserve seats at that table.”
She wants people to know that it is not because poor people are lazy, it is that “being poor is so expensive”. Her family still struggles today; she helps out when she can with what money she has.
She shared her story in a virtual rally for Feeding Kentucky, where Governor Beshear declared January 28th as ‘Hunger Free Day’ and donated nearly $16,000 to the cause.
“We have more work to do, when 1 in 6 Kentucky households experience food insecurity” said Governor Beshear.
Mays says it’s a step in the right direction.
“It’s a great first step, but I think that we have an incredibly long way to go.’
Her next steps are to finish her PHD in Anthropology at the University of Kentucky and bring together a group of people who have experienced food insecurity so as to push for more change by legislators.
For more information on Feeding Kentucky, click here.